So I went on a few dates with the same guy. And now it is over.
But I am not sad. First of all I ended it - but most importantly, I saw the red flags and didn't try to fix him or the relationship...I just let it go.
I wish him well. I didn't let enough time to go on to be invested. I wish I could have learned this 20 years ago. I am truly trying to live my 2013 word - COMPASSION with boundaries. I am not here to fix or take on everyone I want to be in a relationship with. I only need to decide if I want to accept them for who they are and what they bring to the relationship and if I want them to be an integral part of my life.
This is a beautiful thing.
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